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I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?
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Topic: Funny, Life, Relationships
So many people think that they are not gifted because they don’t have an obvious talent that people can recognize because it doesn’t fall under the creative arts category—writing, dancing, music, acting, art or singing. Sadly, they let their real talents go undeveloped, while they chase after fame. I am grateful for the people with obscure unremarked talents because they make our lives easier---inventors, organizers, planners, peacemakers, communicators, activists, scientists, and so forth. However, there is one gift that trumps all other talents—being an excellent parent. If you can successfully raise a child in this day in age to have integrity then you have left a legacy that future generations will benefit from.
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Topic: Happiness
Your most important “want” should be the one you can control!
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Topic: Happiness
Maybe, if you can't get someone out of your head they were never meant to leave. Perhaps, they were meant to help change you into the person you have been waiting to become.
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Topic: Hope, Relationships
Silence is a lie that screams at the light.
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Topic: Death
Never presume to know a person based on the one dimensional window of the internet. A soul can’t be defined by critics, enemies or broken ties with family or friends. Neither can it be explained by posts or blogs that lack facial expressions, tone or insight into the person’s personality and intent. Until people “get that”, we will forever be a society that thinks Beautiful Mind was a spy movie and every stranger is really a friend on Facebook.
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Topic: Television
Lies don't end relationships the truth does.
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Topic: Relationships
If you haven't cried at least once while writing a chapter of your inspirational book, then you have to ask yourself if your're writing fiction.
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Topic: Relationships
When someone you love makes compassion, kindness, forgiveness, respect and God an option, you can be sure they have made you an option, as well.
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Topic: Relationships
True confidence is not about what you take from someone to restore yourself, but what you give back to your critics because they need it more than you do.
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Topic: Relationships
The most confused you will ever get is when you try to convince your heart and spirit of something your mind knows is a lie.
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Topic: Religion
When you are joyful, when you say yes to life and have fun and project positivity all around you, you become a sun in the center of every constellation, and people want to be near you.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Happiness
I am not afraid to die; I am only afraid of saying goodbye to you forever.
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Topic: Hope
Somewhere between love and hate lies confusion, misunderstanding and desperate hope.
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Topic: Life, Relationships
The true definition of mental illness is when the majority of your time is spent in the past or future, but rarely living in the realism of NOW.
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Topic: Life
If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is just enough for both of you to release the truth, so healing can occur. The opposite is true, as well. If you don’t have feelings for someone then never let another person suggest that you do. Protect your reputation and be responsible for the wrong information spread about you. Never allow anyone to live with a false belief or unfounded hope about you. An honorable person sets the record straight, so that person can move on with their life.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
It is not lies or a lack of loyalty that ends a relationship. It is the agonizing truth that one person feels in their heart on a daily basis. It is realizing that you are coping and not living. It is the false belief that there is a verse, quote, phrase or talk that will magically make you feel content, complete or not care. However, it doesn’t last longer than a few days, before your mind and heart goes back to what it wants. It is the moment you realize that you left without ever leaving. It is the moment you realize that fear, shame or guilt is the only thing standing in the way of the life God meant for you to live.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
Some stories have to be written because no one would believe the absurdity of it all.
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Topic: Funny, Television
Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Happiness, Relationships
Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Life, Relationships
Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another, "I want to know why!
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
Every relationship that has hit a crossroads has asked, “What is it that you want from me?
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
You can't compare men or women with mental disorders to the normal expectations of men and women in without mental orders. Your dealing with symptoms and until you understand that you will always try to find sane explanations among insane behaviors. You will always have unreachable standards and disappointments. If you want to survive in a marriage to someone that has a disorder you have to judge their actions from a place of realistic expectations in regards to that person's upbringing and diagnosis.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Funny, Life, Relationships
So many people think that they are not gifted because they don’t have an obvious talent that people can recognize because it doesn’t fall under the creative arts category—writing, dancing, music, acting, art or singing. Sadly, they let their real talents go undeveloped, while they chase after fame. I am grateful for the people with obscure unremarked talents because they make our lives easier---inventors, organizers, planners, peacemakers, communicators, activists, scientists, and so forth. However, there is one gift that trumps all other talents—being an excellent parent. If you can successfully raise a child in this day in age to have integrity then you have left a legacy that future generations will benefit from.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Happiness
Your most important “want” should be the one you can control!
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Happiness
Maybe, if you can't get someone out of your head they were never meant to leave. Perhaps, they were meant to help change you into the person you have been waiting to become.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Hope, Relationships
Silence is a lie that screams at the light.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Death
Never presume to know a person based on the one dimensional window of the internet. A soul can’t be defined by critics, enemies or broken ties with family or friends. Neither can it be explained by posts or blogs that lack facial expressions, tone or insight into the person’s personality and intent. Until people “get that”, we will forever be a society that thinks Beautiful Mind was a spy movie and every stranger is really a friend on Facebook.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Television
Lies don't end relationships the truth does.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
If you haven't cried at least once while writing a chapter of your inspirational book, then you have to ask yourself if your're writing fiction.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
When someone you love makes compassion, kindness, forgiveness, respect and God an option, you can be sure they have made you an option, as well.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
True confidence is not about what you take from someone to restore yourself, but what you give back to your critics because they need it more than you do.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
The most confused you will ever get is when you try to convince your heart and spirit of something your mind knows is a lie.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Religion
When you are joyful, when you say yes to life and have fun and project positivity all around you, you become a sun in the center of every constellation, and people want to be near you.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Happiness
I am not afraid to die; I am only afraid of saying goodbye to you forever.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Hope
Somewhere between love and hate lies confusion, misunderstanding and desperate hope.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Life, Relationships
The true definition of mental illness is when the majority of your time is spent in the past or future, but rarely living in the realism of NOW.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Life
If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is just enough for both of you to release the truth, so healing can occur. The opposite is true, as well. If you don’t have feelings for someone then never let another person suggest that you do. Protect your reputation and be responsible for the wrong information spread about you. Never allow anyone to live with a false belief or unfounded hope about you. An honorable person sets the record straight, so that person can move on with their life.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
It is not lies or a lack of loyalty that ends a relationship. It is the agonizing truth that one person feels in their heart on a daily basis. It is realizing that you are coping and not living. It is the false belief that there is a verse, quote, phrase or talk that will magically make you feel content, complete or not care. However, it doesn’t last longer than a few days, before your mind and heart goes back to what it wants. It is the moment you realize that you left without ever leaving. It is the moment you realize that fear, shame or guilt is the only thing standing in the way of the life God meant for you to live.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
Some stories have to be written because no one would believe the absurdity of it all.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Funny, Television
Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Happiness, Relationships
Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Life, Relationships
Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another, "I want to know why!
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
Every relationship that has hit a crossroads has asked, “What is it that you want from me?
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
You can't compare men or women with mental disorders to the normal expectations of men and women in without mental orders. Your dealing with symptoms and until you understand that you will always try to find sane explanations among insane behaviors. You will always have unreachable standards and disappointments. If you want to survive in a marriage to someone that has a disorder you have to judge their actions from a place of realistic expectations in regards to that person's upbringing and diagnosis.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
I love you. I hate you. I like you. I hate you. I love you. I think you’re stupid. I think you’re a loser. I think you’re wonderful. I want to be with you. I don’t want to be with you. I would never date you. I hate you. I love you…..I think the madness started the moment we met and you shook my hand. Did you have a disease or something?
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Funny, Life, Relationships
So many people think that they are not gifted because they don’t have an obvious talent that people can recognize because it doesn’t fall under the creative arts category—writing, dancing, music, acting, art or singing. Sadly, they let their real talents go undeveloped, while they chase after fame. I am grateful for the people with obscure unremarked talents because they make our lives easier---inventors, organizers, planners, peacemakers, communicators, activists, scientists, and so forth. However, there is one gift that trumps all other talents—being an excellent parent. If you can successfully raise a child in this day in age to have integrity then you have left a legacy that future generations will benefit from.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Happiness
Your most important “want” should be the one you can control!
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Happiness
Maybe, if you can't get someone out of your head they were never meant to leave. Perhaps, they were meant to help change you into the person you have been waiting to become.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Hope, Relationships
Silence is a lie that screams at the light.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Death
Never presume to know a person based on the one dimensional window of the internet. A soul can’t be defined by critics, enemies or broken ties with family or friends. Neither can it be explained by posts or blogs that lack facial expressions, tone or insight into the person’s personality and intent. Until people “get that”, we will forever be a society that thinks Beautiful Mind was a spy movie and every stranger is really a friend on Facebook.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Television
Lies don't end relationships the truth does.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
If you haven't cried at least once while writing a chapter of your inspirational book, then you have to ask yourself if your're writing fiction.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
When someone you love makes compassion, kindness, forgiveness, respect and God an option, you can be sure they have made you an option, as well.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
True confidence is not about what you take from someone to restore yourself, but what you give back to your critics because they need it more than you do.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
The most confused you will ever get is when you try to convince your heart and spirit of something your mind knows is a lie.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Religion
When you are joyful, when you say yes to life and have fun and project positivity all around you, you become a sun in the center of every constellation, and people want to be near you.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Happiness
I am not afraid to die; I am only afraid of saying goodbye to you forever.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Hope
Somewhere between love and hate lies confusion, misunderstanding and desperate hope.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Life, Relationships
The true definition of mental illness is when the majority of your time is spent in the past or future, but rarely living in the realism of NOW.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Life
If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them to hurt you a second time in your mind.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is just enough for both of you to release the truth, so healing can occur. The opposite is true, as well. If you don’t have feelings for someone then never let another person suggest that you do. Protect your reputation and be responsible for the wrong information spread about you. Never allow anyone to live with a false belief or unfounded hope about you. An honorable person sets the record straight, so that person can move on with their life.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
It is not lies or a lack of loyalty that ends a relationship. It is the agonizing truth that one person feels in their heart on a daily basis. It is realizing that you are coping and not living. It is the false belief that there is a verse, quote, phrase or talk that will magically make you feel content, complete or not care. However, it doesn’t last longer than a few days, before your mind and heart goes back to what it wants. It is the moment you realize that you left without ever leaving. It is the moment you realize that fear, shame or guilt is the only thing standing in the way of the life God meant for you to live.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
Some stories have to be written because no one would believe the absurdity of it all.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Funny, Television
Hide yourself in God, so when a man wants to find you he will have to go there first.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Happiness, Relationships
Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Life, Relationships
Every broken heart has screamed at one time or another, "I want to know why!
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
Every relationship that has hit a crossroads has asked, “What is it that you want from me?
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
You can't compare men or women with mental disorders to the normal expectations of men and women in without mental orders. Your dealing with symptoms and until you understand that you will always try to find sane explanations among insane behaviors. You will always have unreachable standards and disappointments. If you want to survive in a marriage to someone that has a disorder you have to judge their actions from a place of realistic expectations in regards to that person's upbringing and diagnosis.
NOT YET RATING ▼
Topic: Relationships
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